How to Get the Man of Your Dreams?

 by Barbie Kiss

www.mylunakiss.com

How to attract attract your dream guy is not a gimmick.

Male Magnet

There are plenty of "how to find a man in...." guides that offer advice on how to lure the man of your dreams. Some advisers go to the extreme to say that you can attract the man you desire by getting a lock of his hair and putting it under your pillow and by the first full moon, he will be at your doorstep. Okay, and my hair will never frizz in humidity.

There is no quick fix or shortcut to getting anything valuable..a man, your dream job, your goals, etc. so if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true.

I am an advocate of visualization and I think it is the best way to get anything but first you need to work on yourself. Think of it as a "tune up for you" so that you can improve yourself and your life and attract a great guy.

The most important thing is to be brutally honest with yourself. If you can't be honest with yourself then ask one of your friends to help you with the questions below:

Sloppy Dresser - Woman

1. Do you look nice when you go out or do you look sloppy or a like train wreck? If your appearance is less than desirable then you should try to improve your style. Ask for assistance. You don't have to invest in new wardrobe. 

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Positive Self Esteem

1. Do you practice good hygiene, nails clean, take showers regularly, clean hair, good breath, etc? If no, invest in a manicure, spa treatment, haircut and commit to daily showers. Nothing is more of a male turn off than a dirty girl that is truly dirty not Xtina dirty.
2. Are you an outgoing friendly person or are you a wallflower waiting for everyone to approach you? If your too shy to speak, you may want to try being more vocal. Join a special interest group or enroll in a class and challenge yourself to make some friends. No one is going to show up at your door and say  "I am the one for you."
3. Have you ever gone anywhere alone, like a cafe, restaurant or a gym? If no, then try to do at least one of these things on your own and NO TALKING on the cell phone because then you are not giving anyone a chance to speak with you.
4. Do you have very low self esteem? Most people don't like certain things about themselves but if you can find more things wrong with you than right you may need to seek professional help. Not joking...seriously - speaking with a counselor or therapist (does not have to be forever) will set you on track. Extreme low self esteem is negative energy and if you don't love yourself then no matter who becomes your love partner - they will never be able to make you happy.
5. Love YOU first and I don't mean be conceited but love yourself enough to know that you deserve to be treated with respect. If you abide by that you will attract a man that will respect you

Stay tuned for How To Attract Men suitable for You, Monday, July 25th or you can ...

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Where is my Prince...dammit?

by Vickie Retro
mylunakiss.com

It's a total viral explosion of Royal Mania, Catherine Middleton and Prince William are now husband and wife and "patient Kate's life" will never be the same (Kate waited 9 years for the proposal). I cannot escape the daily royal wedding obsession on the web or the boob tube. 

Why did 24 million Americans tune in at the crack of dawn to witness this Royal Marriage? Well, I think we can all thank Romance for that.  Thanks romance...you did it again!

 

As I child, I remember pictures of Princes and Princesses (thanks Disney) and the story rarely ever changes except the characters and the scenery. I can recite it without thinking -  the Prince marries an innocent lowly girl who becomes a Princess and they both live happily ever after... without marital therapy. 

Sweet Sixteen - Billy Idol ...was my crush..not really related to this article but wish he was singing to me.

You are probably wondering...where is my Prince? Where is that perfect man that will treat me like a Princess, write love poems, wait on me, buy me whatever I want, spoil and pamper me by fulfilling all my requests and showing me his undying love daily...one can dream. Oh well, fast forward to present day...

I found my Prince (not on a white horse) and he treats me with respect, good faith, honesty, loyalty and tons of love and I appreciate him daily.



Train - Marry Me

10 Tips on how to find your true Prince Charming:

Note: Don't wait for your Prince to find you because you will be waiting a very long time.

• Be proactive
• Look your Best (no frumpville)
• Be Friendly and Open
• If you have major personality flaw fix it (ask your closest friends to be brutally honest with you about your flaw factor)
• Be open to new experiences.
• Accept change (biggie for many)
• Step outside 0f your safety box (never date short men...well try that for a change)
• Shades of gray are okay - don't be so rigid
• Don't judge before you listen (remember you did not live their life)
• Physical exterior is not everything it is the person inside that counts. (it's true ..that does not mean you need to cozy up with a monster)
• Looks fade - your looks will fade - and his hair will most likely recede and he will age 
• Find someone you can connect with on multiple levels instead of one (similar views, ideals, whatever is most important to you)
• Timing

Your Prince could be the guy you spoke to on the phone for hours the night your boyfriend ended it; Your prince could be the man that listens to your tales of woe; Your prince could be the dude that is always there whenever you need a good friend. 


I Would Die 4 U - Prince by Doloresdu92

Step outside your safety net and stop being a stick in the mud. Trust me if you open yourself to new experiences you will find more than your Prince Charming...you will find the love of your life!