How not to Sink a Marriage

by Barbie Kiss

www.mylunakiss.com

MyLunaKiss believe share is caring and we like to share thoughts, views and opinions of others.

Tara Parker-Pope's share's her personal views on how to spot a good marriage.

Tara Parker-Pope was pretty sure her marriage was great. Parker-Pope's husband rarely argued, their careers similar and they shared common interests. According to Pope, things weren't perfect, and they seemed to be humming along in harmony better than most other couples she knew but when their 17-year marriage ended she was the most surprised.

According to Pope, it turns out, though, that the signs of trouble had been there all along, if she only knew what to look for. Instead, Pope was judging her marriage by the wrong standards—which, she has since learned, most of people do. MyLunaKiss says of course because many people tend live in the land of denial!  For more click here.

Why do Relationships stale like day old bread!

by Barbie G.

http://www.mylunakiss.com/

Sex Taboos

Not to be confused with Barbie Kiss...Barbie G,  hosts the radio shows on MyLunaKiss Blog Talk Radio.

MyLunaKiss Blog Talk Radio has covered a variety of spicy topics in the past including: sexual taboos, fetish fantasies, bondage events, swingers, nude resorts, how to maintain a healthy sex life with your partner in your relationship, sex on your honeymoon or wedding day.

How to save your Marriage with Sex!

Axl Sterling, Christian Fox and Barbie G. (that's me) are back and ready to put the spotlight on a new host of sexy taboos, fetish topics, and relationship tips and quips, and whatever else pops in our zany heads. No discussion is off limits. 

To get a taste of our chat sex stew...check out one of our archives shows: Taboo Fetish or Sex After Marriage...what gives...who Gives?

Taboo Lifestyle - Bondage

In the upcoming months, we plan to interview live guests on the show so if you are sex guru, dominatrix, virgin over 40, cyber dater, serial dater or cougar on the prowl for young men or seeking romance advice call us live or email us at mylunakiss@yahoo.com.

We promise to listen, ask smart questions and share our opinions but at the end of day it is your life so we will never judge you.

Barbed Wire Bondage Rihanna

MyLunaKiss Blog Talk Radio airs every Friday at 6:30 pm. Next show is on Friday, July 22nd, 2011 at 6:30 pm. If you can't listen live, then visit our site and listen at your leisure. Our topic this week is What is the point of being in a Relationship – it get’s stale like old bread!

Check out MyLunaKiss PVC Latex Video

Breakup Remedy...according to Jennifer Aniston

by Vickie Retro
http://www.mylunakiss.com/

Jennifer Aniston

Breakups suck for many reasons unless it is amicable which I question because are both individual really happy their relationship is ending?

Not sure, either way, Jennifer Aniston (mylunakiss.com Sexy Women over 40) is linked to the word "break up" for many reasons aside from the movie The Break Up with ex-boyfriend Vince Vaughn and according to the tabloid circuit the Vaughn and Aniston split was amicable.

It seems to be six degrees of separation for the word "break up" and 6 years of Brad Pitt revelations for Jennifer A. since their split (March 2005). Aniston reveals in a recent interview with James Lipton on Inside The Actor's Studio that the movie The Break Up helped her get over her split with Brad Pitt...hmmm interesting.

Judge for yourselves in this Jennifer Aniston video clip!

For more mylunakiss.com Jennifer Aniston, check out: Jennifer Aniston Sexy over 40!

A Love Recipe for your Sweetheart...men pay attention!

by Luna Lugo

www.mylunakiss.com



Love Recipe



A love recipe may sound a bit too sweet but it is worth the time. The mylunakiss love recipe is more like the Top 7 Ways to keep the Romance alive and your woman happy!
 

Man with Flowers

 

1. A compliment is priceless.... "You look beautiful today" or "You look pretty in red"
2. A phone call in the middle of day to share how much she means to you or a love text.
3. Dedicate a love song video to her on Facebook.
4. When you get home ask "What can I do to help with the kids?" if you don't have kids  "Do you need help with anything, what can I do?"
5. Fix her favorite night time snack. For example, my hubby makes me tea every now and then at night.
6. Draw her bubble bath on the weekend.
7. Surprise her with flowers or any item that means a lot to her for no particular reason.

The Case of the Disappearing Man... Why did he do it?

by Vickie Retro
mylunakiss.com


Subscribe to MyLunakiss Feed

It is more common than you think, men that get swallowed up by a black hole of denial and the  "I don't want to deal with this anymore" syndrome and it happens to women a lot more than you think.


I am not referring to men that really vanish that is a serious issue and a different article.

I am talking about men that are in brief or long term relationships with women and all of sudden they are gone...no goodbye, no post it note, no phone call...nada.

Why do they do that? Well, I know why because it happened to me back in the 80's (my favorite era).


Retro 80's Disappearing Man Story:


I was dating this guy on and off for a year, our friendship was cool and he wanted us to be official but I did not want to commit. I was going through my dazed and confused period and commitment sounded like jail sentence to me. Then one day he pulled a disappearing act!


I remember it well, like it was a distant dream, we went on a date to the movies in the village. Our movie choice was the "Bruce Lee Story" and I recall that we were both excited to see it because we really liked martial art films.  Halfway through the movie he looked at me and said, "I have to go the bathroom". I said okay, and I continued to watch the film. I noticed after about 15 minutes that he was still not back from the bathroom so I got up and looked to see if he was okay. I thought maybe he was sick from the those plastic nachos. I knocked on the bathroom door and no answer, I went inside to check to see if he passed out but he was not in the bathroom...it was empty. 


Then I thought, maybe he went back to his seat so I went back to check but he was not there so I thought maybe there was a family emergency. I called his Mom to find out if that was the case. She told me that everything was fine and that she had not heard from him. I walked back to the subway in a daze wondering what the hell in a hand basket and WHY ME? I decided to take the train back home but before I got on the train I decided to ask the police officer standing guard. I asked, "Officer is it possible that a 6'6 guy, age 21 can just disappear?" Then I told him the rest of the story and he said, "No, not really, maybe he does not want to be found." The cop was right and my guy was MIA for almost 3 months because he did not respond to any of my attempts at contact.


I spent the rest of the summer wondering every now and then "why" and "why me"and then one day I received a letter in the mail from my guy explaining everything (this was before email was popular). He wrote that he did not want to get hurt again and he was tired of discussing our relationship and did not want to deal with saying goodbye and he wanted a clean break so he decided to leave.

Did I ever forgive him? Yes!

Did I date him again? No but we remained friends.


My point is that some men don't like confrontation or dealing with drama or don't have the guts to deal with a negative outcome so they flee.

MyLunakiss Action Plan for the Disappearing Man:


Remember, don't panic, he is an adult although he may not act like one.


Ask yourself these three questions:

1. Did you become to clingy, needy or dependent? If yes, to any of these questions then he left because he did not want a dramatic scene and no strings
2. Did he not share personal things with you? Did he share his job information, where he lives, his private cell, home phone or anything else that you may have shared with him? If No, to any of these question then he is either married, engaged, in a long term relationship or hiding something from you and it makes it easier to exit without a conversation. Note: If you went on less than 3 date this does not count.
3. Did he not return your emails, SMS, Facebook wall posts, voicemails or phone calls and you know he is okay then he no longer wants contact. Maybe he does not want the pressure of taking the relationship to another level with you or like my story he does not want to be rejected but this happen less often.

Remember men who disappear are not worth it because a real man stays, explains and shows you respect.

How to keep the fire burning? Marital Woes

by Luna Lugo for Barbie Kiss

mylunakiss.com

Why is it so difficult for couples to sustain that "love is eternal" look after the honeymoon ends? 

I ask this question of all my married friends and I never get a good answer. I am lucky to be in a passionate and romantic union for more than 10 years.  I know it can be work but if you love your job the work is rewarding and worth the emotional investment.

Maybe it is easier to quip than quiver in marriage because real life and stress sneaks in and steals the innocence and purity of  love? I am amazed at how love between two people can transform and deepen over the years.

I guess it is easy to romanticize your first kiss or first embrace or the first time you heard the words "I love you".  I can recall raw, unedited, pure and innocent emotions with my husband and it still happens. I strongly believe love in a marriage should be magical because of the commitment to spend the rest of your life with one person (hopefully, if not then with someone who is meant for you)

Yes, the daily stresses of married life can get in the way, the kids are a priority, money is a concern, fatigue is a factor, in-laws, it can get quirky at times but true love should not fade into the background ..it should be front and center.

So, I challenge anyone that is married to honestly answer the following questions: (why because life is short and you should spend it in-love not in like)

1. When was the last time you looked at your spouse the same way you did on your wedding day? 
2. When was the last time you held your partner in a long loving embrace? 
3. When was the last time you kissed your spouse with the same tenderness as when you first met? 
4. When was the last time you were alone together without distractions for a long period of time
5. When was the last time you made love with intense passion?

If you can answer more than two of these questions then congrats! If you can't recall the last time any of this happened or you don't feel the same way then perhaps you may want to take some time to reflect.

It is possible to have everlasting love with your spouse and true love does exist.

Love Quotes: 

“I love you, not only for what you are, But for what I am when I am with you.”

 Roy Croft

“The life and love we create is the life and love we live.”

 Leo Buscaglia

Information Source: lovequotes.com